This Quiet Moment on Your Wedding Day Might Just Make You Cry (In the Best Way)

From your favourite Aberdeenshire wedding photographer

You’ve said your vows. You’ve been hugged within an inch of your life. You’ve had confetti in your hair, down your dress, and – let’s be honest – probably in your bra too. The adrenaline is still buzzing, your cheeks hurt from smiling, and everyone you love is just so ready to celebrate with you.

But right here, in this little breath between the ceremony and the party – this is where the magic truly happens.

The Whirlwind is Real

Weddings are wonderful, but they are also wild. A joyful, emotional rollercoaster where time moves in fast-forward. One minute you’re saying “I do”, the next you’re dancing to Mr Brightside and wondering if you even ate.

As an Aberdeenshire wedding photographer, I’ve seen it again and again; the day flies past in a blur of hugs, champagne, and “can we grab a quick photo?” And in the middle of that whirlwind, it’s easy to forget the one thing that matters most…

You just married your person.

Press Pause

Taking ten minutes; just the two of you, no guests, no planner, not even your (very lovely) photographer – is one of the most powerful things you can do.

It’s your first moment alone as a married couple. A moment to say “can you believe we did it?” and soak in the joy. It’s a chance to slow the pace, let the nerves settle, and just be.

Whether you sit in the car, sneak into a side room, or wander into the trees behind your venue, that little pause will ground you in the most beautiful way.

It’s a Moment Just for You

You don’t need to say anything profound. You don’t need to pose. You just need to be together. And as your Aberdeenshire wedding photographer, I’ll make sure there’s space in your timeline for this sacred slice of quiet.

Because yes – the speeches and the dancing and the sparkler send-off are amazing. But this? This is the part that will live in your hearts forever.

A Memory That Sticks

When I ask couples what they remember most, it’s often this moment. That tiny, golden window of stillness. Just the two of them, wrapped up in love, before the party swept them away again.

So please, when the big day comes… carve that time out. Make it yours.

I promise; the dance floor will still be there when you return.

Planning your wedding in Scotland?

As a Scottish wedding photographer, I help couples slow down and soak in the moments that matter most. Let’s create a day that feels like you – full of heart, joy, and a little bit of calm in the chaos.

Get in touch to chat about your plans, or explore more tips on making your wedding feel unforgettable. 💛